{"id":472,"date":"2008-09-27T15:48:49","date_gmt":"2008-09-27T15:48:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/?p=472"},"modified":"2008-09-27T19:30:54","modified_gmt":"2008-09-27T19:30:54","slug":"why-do-some-people-always-complain-about-something-yet-do-nothing-to-change-the-situation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/2008\/09\/27\/why-do-some-people-always-complain-about-something-yet-do-nothing-to-change-the-situation\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do some people always complain about something, yet do nothing to change the situation?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\nBy far the simplest answer to this question is: <em>complaining is easy but actively trying to change things requires work<\/em>!\n<\/p>\n<p>I always hated it when people start off a diatribe by saying &#8220;There&#8217;s two kinds of people in this world &#8230;&#8221;,  yet I find that I&#8217;m about to do exactly that. It feels to me that you&#8217;re either the kind of person that see&#8217;s something that&#8217;s wrong and decides to do something about it openly and honestly&#8230; OR you&#8217;re the kind of person who sits there whining and complaining about things but doesn&#8217;t have courage or the conviction to get up off your ass and actually do something about whatever it is that is bugging you.<\/p>\n<p>If you disagree with something, if you think you&#8217;re being treated unfairly, or you perceive that there&#8217;s some kind of injustice being perpetrated then, <em>grow a set of balls<\/em>, find you&#8217;re voice and confront the issue. You might actually find that other people lend their voice to yours and you can actually effect change, or at the very least they&#8217;ll respect you for speaking up.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t require or expect anyone to agree with me over anything I do in life or write on this blog &#8230;  I always speak my mind, openly and honestly, my words are my own and they reflect what I believe, and how I perceive the world around me.  I hide behind no-one. I always try to change those things that I disagree with, I don&#8217;t always succeed but at least I speak up. If you don&#8217;t like me, or you feel differently to me then find your own voice, and make yourself heard and fight to change that which you disagree with &#8230; but in doing so, please, have the courage to do it openly rather than cringing like a coward behind the anonymity you&#8217;ve chosen.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<pre>\r\nYou must be the change you wish to see in the world.\r\n            Mahatma Ghandi\r\n<\/pre>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By far the simplest answer to this question is: complaining is easy but actively trying to change things requires work! I always hated it when people start off a diatribe by saying &#8220;There&#8217;s two kinds of people in this world &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/2008\/09\/27\/why-do-some-people-always-complain-about-something-yet-do-nothing-to-change-the-situation\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[382],"class_list":["post-472","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-personal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/472","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=472"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/472\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=472"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=472"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/virtualchaos.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=472"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}